Divorce in Hawaii

Attorneys and staff of Doi/Luke, Islandlawyers

Attorneys and staff of Doi/Luke, Islandlawyers


Divorce can be a difficult and stressful process.  You’ll find information and links on our site that may help you figure out your direction.  Doi/Luke, Islandlawyers is located in Honolulu, Hawaii, and we have handled countless divorce cases over the last 20 years.

If you have questions not covered here, see our Legal Information page, or give us a call at (808) 593-2199 and schedule a consult – we’ll be happy to speak with you.




Hawai’i divorce law provides for a “no-fault” process. Under a no-fault divorce in Hawai’i, a spouse seeking a divorce needs to state one of four possible grounds:

  • the marriage is irretrievably broken;
  • the parties have lived separate and apart under a decree of separation from bed and board, and the term of separation has expired, and there has been no reconciliation;
  • the parties have lived separate and apart for two years or more under a decree of separate maintenance and there has been no reconciliation; or
  • the parties have lived separate and apart for a continuous period of two years or more immediately preceding the application for divorce, there is no likelihood that cohabitation will resume, and a divorce is otherwise appropriate.

As such, in order to get divorced, the law only requires that one spouse claim that  the marriage is irretrievably broken (first of the grounds listed above). Previously, a spouse seeking a divorce needed to prove why they were entitled to a divorce, such as adultery or failure to support.   Presently, the claim by one spouse that the marriage is irretrievably broken is enough for the divorce to proceed.


Although the above discussion shows the minimum needed to obtain a divorce in Hawai’i, there are usually other issues involved. The most common issues are:

Even though the above listed issues are probably the most common ones, keep in mind that there may be others.  A lawyer can discuss the other possible issues with you.


A contested divorce is a divorce in which the husband and wife cannot agree as to one or more of the terms and issues of the divorce. Contested divorces often involve substantial amounts of documents and hearings. It is generally very difficult to represent oneself in a contested divorce action, particularly if the opposing side has an attorney.

Divorcing couple, arguing


An uncontested divorce is a divorce in which the husband and wife are in agreement over the terms and issues of the divorce.  A reasonable agreement is generally the best course for all parties, if possible. This would include agreement over the child issues (custody and visitation , child support ), the spousal support issues, and the division of property/debt. Under an uncontested divorce, both husband and wife would sign a divorce decree stating the terms of the divorce.An uncontested divorce is generally a simple matter, involving paperwork, and no court hearings. An attorney’s role in an uncontested divorce is preparing the substantial amount of the Hawaii divorce forms, coordinating the needed signatures of the parties, filing the documents, and obtaining a Family Court Judge’s signature on the divorce decree. Individuals who are willing to commit the necessary time, effort, and attention are able to file their own divorce, as a “pro se” or unrepresented person.


Kids First is a program set up by the Family Court to help parents understand the impact of divorce upon children, and to help children in divorce deal with changes to their family.  Parties who are divorcing that have children under the age of 18 must attend the program before their divorce can be granted.  The program is a one-time session which runs from 5:00 p.m. to 7:30 p.m., and is held only on Wednesday evenings.  Since the Family Court has moved to Kapolei, the program is runs twice a month at the Family Court in Kapolei, and twice a month at the Circuit Court on Punchbowl Street, in downtown. The Kids First Program form and instructions are linked here.


The price of a divorce, like other legal matters, should be broken down into two parts, fees and costs.

Costs are items that are not attorney’s fees, such as photocopying, facsimiles, filing fees charged by the courts, postage, etc. The typical costs for filing an uncontested divorce usually include:

  • filing fee for the divorce (goes to the State of Hawaii — $250 if the parties have children, $200 if they do not);
  • photocopying;

  • postage;

  • messenger/delivery fees

Costs for contested divorces may include, in addition to the above:

  • service of process fees to sheriffs or other individuals to serve papers on your spouse;

  • depositions;

  • transcripts of hearings; and

  • various other expenses and costs

Fees refers to the charge for an attorney’s work on a case.  The fees in an uncontested divorce will almost always be less than that in a contested divorce, as it basically involves the preparation of divorce forms, and no hearings.  As uncontested divorces are fairly simple matters, they can be relatively quick and inexpensive compared to a contested divorce. Attorneys will often charge a flat or fixed fee for an uncontested divorce.  The attorney time and expense involved in a contested divorce varies greatly, depending on the number of issues in which the parties disagree, as well as how far apart the parties are in their disagreement.  Generally, attorneys will charge for contested divorces at an hourly rate.  In connection with an hourly charge, attorneys will usually request a deposit or retainer from the client.  The attorney will then draw their hourly charges from that retainer.


If you have already decided that you need to start a divorce, here are some tips for getting started.


Moving forward with your divorce requires a lot of information from you.  Try to locate the following documents:

  • pay stubs or pay statements, for both you and your spouse

  • bank account/credit union account statements

  • investment account statements

  • retirement/pension statements

  • life insurance policy statements

  • real property deeds and other real property documents, such as appraisals and tax assessments

  • mortgage, credit card, and loan statements

  • wills or estate plans (these may need to be changed)

  • recent tax returns (last 3 years)

  • other personal documents


If you are able to discuss the divorce with your spouse, you should try to determine whether your divorce will be contested or uncontested.  An UNCONTESTED divorce requires an agreement by both spouses on the divorce issues discussed above in the section “What Else Is Involved in a Divorce.”


Although the Family Court staff are unable to give legal advice, the courthouses have legal information available, including all the divorce forms for people in Hawaii preparing their own divorce papers.  The Family Court is located in the Kapolei Judiciary Complex in Kapolei, Hawaii where they have courtrooms, clerks that accept and file your divorce documents, divorce forms, the Kids First II Program (every other week), and the Kapolei Access to Justice Room which is staffed with volunteers to help with legal issues on the 1st and 3rd Thursdays of each month.  The First Circuit Court Building (Kaahumanu Hale) at 777 Punchbowl Street in downtown Honolulu, Hawaii has some Family Court resources – clerks that will accept and file your Family Court documents, divorce forms, and the Kids First II Program (every other week).  Some (not all) of the Family Court divorce forms are online at the Hawaii Judiciary website – for the First Circuit (Honolulu), Second Circuit (Maui/Molokai/Lanai), Third Circuit (Big Island), and Fifth Circuit (Kauai).  See our Honolulu Courthouse Information page for directions.


Take a look at our handy Divorce Issues Checklist, which can help organize your thoughts and positions on the different issues in your divorce.  Prior to scheduling a consultation, it is very helpful to work on one of our questionnaires, to assist us in understanding your situation.  We have three different Divorce Questionnaires, all in Adobe(R) Acrobat(R), or .pdf format:

Divorce Questionnaire, no children
Divorce Questionnaire, parties have minor children
• Divorce Questionnaire, parties have adult children

 If you do not have Adobe Acrobat(R) or Adobe Acrobat Reader(R), you can go to the Adobe (R) website to get Adobe Acrobat Reader(R) for free.



Annulment is a legal process that voids a marriage, essentially making it as if the marriage never happened.  Although many people think that a short marriage can simply be annulled, the reasons upon which you can receive an annulment are few and very specific:

  1. That the parties stood in relation to each other of ancestor and descendant of any degree whatsoever, brother and sister of the half as well as the whole blood, uncle and niece, aunt and nephew, whether the relationship is the result of the issue of parents married or not married to each other;
  2. That the parties, or either of them, had not attained the legal age of marriage;
  3. That the husband had an undivorced wife living, or the wife had an undivorced husband living;
  4. That one of the parties lacked the mental capacity to consent to the marriage;
  5. That consent to the marriage of the party applying for annulment was obtained by force, duress, or fraud, and there has been no subsequent cohabitation; and
  6. That one of the parties was a sufferer of or afflicted with any loathsome disease and the fact was concealed from, and unknown to, the party applying for annulment.
Hawaii Revised Statutes, section 580-21.  As you might observe, not many people seeking annulment will meet the requirements set by the State (and the above list is pretty much the same in every state in the U.S.).  Because of this, virtually everyone seeking an annulment ends up going the divorce route instead.



If you are involved in a complicated divorce, it is often best to speak to an experienced family lawyer.  Doi/Luke is located in Honolulu, Hawaii, but has helped people throughout the State of Hawaii.  We are happy to sit down with you, to talk about your rights and responsibilities in a divorce, including child custody/visitation, child support, alimony, property division, and other issues.

If you would like to talk to an experienced Hawaii divorce lawyer about your questions, or wish to set up a consult, please e-mail or call us at 593-2199.  We’ll be happy to discuss your specific issues.